Everything you experience is in your own mind and is your own experience. The experience of another cannot be exactly the same as yours. This must be understood, so that everyone stops looking to another for answers and validation. Instead, go within and connect with your own Inner Self, who holds the key to all you need to know.
Everything you need comes from within you. When you compare your own experience with that of another, it can cause more of a separation between you and Who You Really Are, by saying these outside situations and circumstances are more true and real than your own. We want this to end, because this is not a part of the Truth of God. The Mind of God never questions Itself and Its own experiences by questioning the way It experiences, nor does it ever compare Itself to another.